In case you were wondering,  yes,  I feel mixed about father’s day too. It is a very different relationship I have with my father now compared to before my mom was sick.  But I solved this problem by skipping the card and just making my dad a cherry pie and telling him I love him.

Also,  I gave him part of my sanity helping him set up his new computer. Did you know that Google Chrome is  an Internet browser,  while Google.com is a website? Some people don’t get that. . .

Moreover,  I did want to update my mother’s day post and say,  I think my mom had a good day.  Most people like being handed flowers and told they’re loved,  even if they don’t understand why.  And I can’t remember whether it was mothers day or another day,  but within recent memory,  she told me she loved me by name. Which means a lot to me. I feel like I’m sure she knows who I am when she calls me by name.